Judge….Mental with three ice cubes please.

Good morning glorious readers.

I have officially figured out why I’ve struggled to post my memes and gif’s in the recent times. For months now, I’ve been struggling with the WiFi connection on my work computer. Seems the WiFi doesn’t truly reach that far. (Rolling eyes) so for five months I have been forced to use the IPad that doesn’t offer much in physical expression ๐Ÿ˜’ meh. Now it’s great and all, but hold for sarcastic applause……. ๐Ÿ˜ž………๐Ÿ˜†… Has anyone forgotten about my break up with auto correct? ….yeh.

I only remember this because another lovely blogger reminded me. ๐Ÿ˜‘

April is National Poetry Month, and I haven’t posted much poetry. “The madness!” I had started a post the other day to acknowledge it, and yeah…. Can you guess…. INTERNET CONNECTIVITY ISSUES. ย ๐Ÿ˜ฑ it’ll come. I’ve been editing or at least trying to. Last week, that littlest member of my clan got her shots, and quite frankly, they kicked her ass! This past week, my house was full of sick kiddos, and I’m over here with my germ spray and mask on … Not really but you get the point.

Another blogger posted something yesterday which I will be re-blogging soon because she struck so much thought in my sleep deprived brain… I’ve got something to say ๐Ÿค”(contemplative look)



I may be sociable, but heck I’m a Virgo, and my biggest cross to bear is how anxious too much stimulation truly gives me. “Mom your so calm and mellow.” My fourteen year old says on the daily, “How do you do it?”

See this would be a meme-able moment.

“With magic fairy dust honey. A little dash of courage, a pinch of smile, and a cup of humor.”

I may be mellow and graceful on the outside, but inside I’m like …Whoah Whoah Whoah… Slow your damn roll.

I’m a short gal. We’re talking 5’1. My looks… Well I’m not one to toot, so I’ll just not go there. However, my biggest pet peeve happens to me on the daily. NO! I don’t appreciate the cashier guy, and bag boy staring creepily at me. Want to talk shit? Say it. Checking me out? ย So not the way to intrigue me. Especially when your standing there, staring at me, and as soon as I turn around you hop right back to what your doing.

Ugh! What’s that saying, salt and sugar look exactly the same, but taste completely different and bla bla bla…. Something else.

Me brain lacks function right now. (Yes I mean me brain. Think Irish accent.)

I most certainly get rubbed the wrong way when other adults see me with my kids, and shift their faces into horrific looks. Because I totally look twelve right!

OK seriously, this fires me up for several reasons:

  1. Because of my height, people underestimate me.
  2. I look younger then I am.
  3. People can’t see past the face, and see my brain (In the past, I’ve heard comments such as; how does a girl like you get such a smart guy? …….๐Ÿ˜’just…. No.)
  4. The list can go on. (Morning brain)

This is one of my struggles. Perception is everything. In your world, I’m that blogger that divulges pieces of her journey, to help you get through yours. I inspire you, lead some, and empower others. It’s just my inclination. In person, I’m just a dumb pretty girl, with a great bod and no skill. …meh (this comment is not meant to be narcissistic. It’s meant to gauge my experience.)

Here’s that meme-able moment again. I’m sure you can all thought bubble this reaction. ๐Ÿ˜› I get tired of feeling hindered, and held back because of stereotypical judgments. I’m tiny so I must be young. I’m short so I must be dumb. ย I’m small so I must be unskilled. This has been my struggle, before all the other struggles. YEAH WAY TO GO LIFE! 8 million you, 10 me. ๐Ÿ˜


there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes, when we struggle, and things become stagnant we just gotta… Change it up… ย No matter what your struggle or struggles are… Know this… Hop in that car, and drive your way straight out of that tunnel. Make a stop in vacation land if you can, and change your thoughts. One of my favorite inspirational books is “The Secret.” My favorite quote … “Change your thoughts, change your life.” So I may sarcastically express, or sometimes fumingly complain, that doesn’t mean I’m dwelling on it . Not one bit. Honestly, I use those experiences as a way to help others. I imagine it helps you see, your not the only one out there, and encourages you to keep on tugging. Because

I think you can

I think you can

I think you can


Always yours truly ย Mellie ยฉ4-15-16

A.K.A ย Rareity (Rare and wise) โฌ…๏ธdid that sound cheesy or what?

“Push forward today with all you’ve got. Grab your obstacles and toss them to the side. Take your mind ย ๐Ÿ”™๐Ÿ”›๐Ÿ” back on top.”#stuffraresays

(With my tablet it throws more misspellings, and mis-caught words at me, that I spend more time fixing terrible auto corrects, then being free to fully edit. Please forgive my editing errors. I’m working of fixing that Internet issue soon.)

21 thoughts on “Judge….Mental with three ice cubes please.

  1. sheldonk2014 says:

    Thank you
    I used to get these looks cause I’m on the older side
    So they just assumed that the little girl was my niece and not my daughter
    Use to drive me crazy
    Not as much anymore
    See you on the other side of creativity

    Liked by 1 person

    • Rareity says:

      I though I was the only one. Good to know I’m not singled out. How terrible or is the people judge. I suppose it is what it is nice to meet you Sheldon ๐Ÿ˜Š


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